When it comes to having a family of our own, adoption has been and is one of the options we have considered all along.
We have spoken with many couples who have adopted over the past few years. We have heard their stories. Some went through agencies and had to drain their savings and one even put their child on their credit card. Others found a baby to adopt through a friend of a friend and were able to do a private adoption. And yet others fostered and were able to adopt the children already living in their homes. It wasn't long before we found out that adoption looks different for everyone.
In researching agencies, it is scary and there are a lot of considerations to take into account and preferences to decide on. Other agencies required thousands of dollars in advance, which is okay, but will not be refunded if the birth mother is changes her mind and decides to keep the baby after he or she is born.
Most agencies specifically ask for two healthy parents.
Knowing the challenge of being able to convince agencies that Aaron is indeed healthy for all intensive purposes and has some limitations is proving to be our biggest challenge when we look at adoption.
After talking to a few of the agencies and getting a recommendation from a dear friend's church, we were put in touch with a lawyer through Tampa. She was willing to work with us, there was only one problem, Aaron didn't live at home during that time. She had said that no one would take us seriously if I couldn't even care for my husband at home. I knew what she meant. Adoption (through an agency) would have to be postponed or would it?
It was that very same afternoon that I met with someone that helps us handle Aaron's care. She explained that Aaron had surpassed the need for the level of care he was getting at the rehab facility and we needed to talk about Aaron's options...one of which was moving home with me permanently.
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